Y'all have to have seen this Tarantino classic so I'm not really giving you an introduction but it is one particular scene that I want to talk about in this post. NSFW btw. Totally NSFW.
Okay so this is sexy beyond measure and hotness itself.
But my point is something else entirely.
She's doing the lap dance for the guy. But you know who is having the most fun? Her.
She is just so confident of herself, so sure of what she is doing and so positive about the effect she is having on everyone that she ends up OWNING the scene and then some. She is lip syncing with a MAN'S VOICE and still owning it.
I like that kind of confidence in a woman. It is not very easy to get there for us normal women because we all have our own insecurities and we are always conscious. But to be able to have what you have and flaunt it like there is no tomorrow, takes complete and utter faith in yourself. To be able to put yourself out there.
No wonder men are attracted to powerful women who are assertive and confident.
If you realize this has nothing to do with giving someone a lap dance and everything about being confident about who you are, being comfortable in your own skin and being proud of who you are. Because so many of us underestimate ourselves.